Mid-June is here and the temperatures are climbing up in Georgia. But nothing compared by the brutal heat faced by so much of the world- my schoolfriend who now lives in Delhi texted me a pic of the thermometer on her balcony- it registered 50 Celsius at 10 AM- that is 122 Fahrenheit! Unimaginable, and yet a reality for millions.
I haven't had the bandwidth to try new recipes or the urge to make anything elaborate, but we are eating homemade meals with plenty of vegetables. Here's a sampler of what I ate this week:
Egg salad coleslaw- a mash-up of two summer favorite hearty salads. I started making a big box of cabbage mix (mandoline-sliced cabbage, red pepper, cucumber in this one) and eating it over the next 3 days. When it was time for lunch, I would take a bowlful of the veg mix, and add 2 sliced hard-boiled eggs (the egg slicer is one of my favorite kitchen unitaskers) and a "dressing"- teaspoon-sized gobs of mayo, mustard, plain homemade yogurt, a drizzle of pickle juice and some sweet and spicy jalapeños, salt and pepper. Mix it up and eat.
Assembling the egg salad coleslaw |
Cabbage salad mix |
All mixed up |
Misal-adjacent curry- Cook up a pot of lentils, and make it a meal with toppings of boiled potato, onion, cilantro, roasted peanuts, and other such assortments.
What I'm watching: This week, I watched three episodes of Black Mirror- Demon 79 (brilliant acting by Anjana Vasan), Rachel, Jack and Ashley Too, and Playtest. Black Mirror is so, so brilliant. Even the less than stellar episodes stay on my mind for a few days, and this is not a series I can ever binge-watch. I can only handle a few episodes at a time.
My son and I were home by ourselves this week (dad was on a work trip and big sis was at her first sleepaway camp) and so we had ourselves a couple of movie nights. I was pleasantly surprised at how much I enjoyed/tolerated Pokémon Detective Pikachu on Netflix. I also took him to the theater (my first time in a movie theater since 2019, I think) to see Inside Out 2. We both enjoyed it, but with the theme of emotions in puberty, really it is big sis who is the target audience for this movie.
Speaking of emotions and puberty, what I'm reading: Untangled: Guiding teenage girls through the seven transitions into adulthood by Lisa Damour. Damour is a clinical psychologist who specialized in adolescent girls, and says that the way people typically talk about teenage girls isn’t fair to girls or helpful to their parents (this part is very relatable.) But these years do not have to feel tangled and out of control because in fact there is a predictable pattern to teenage development. Damour describes seven developmental strands and how girls move along each of them at different rates and grow on several fronts at once. This is an extremely helpful book and while I did not agree with everything she said, I wrote down pages and pages of notes as reference. If you have a tween/teen girl in your life, I highly recommend reading this one.Occasionally, I stumble on one of my own posts from the endless blog archive and it is fun to read it again. This week, I re-read this book summary I wrote in the pandemic summer: The End of Overeating and chuckled to myself about how much I love writing book summaries and summarizing information in general. Note-taking is literally my biggest hobby, some would say a most useless trait in this age of Chat-GPT!
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In my last post, I mentioned my newly acquired personal trainer certification. In the last dozen years, I've gone from being completely sedentary to a regular exerciser, and coupled with all the real-world experiences of these years, plus the textbook knowledge from the certification and a lot (lot!) of extra reading and experimentation (you'll see a few fitness-related posts sprinkled throughout the blog), I have plenty to share from what I've learned.
I've put together a slide deck with the idea of conducting virtual and in-person fitness chats, or personalized consultations about understanding the world of fitness and how it relates to an individual's own exercise habits. This is designed to answer questions like- Working out is boring; how can I make it interesting?, or Where do I even begin?, or, I've heard of strength training but don't really understand what it means. You get the idea.
I'm looking for a few testers, so if you have an active interest in fitness plus one or more fitness-related questions you'd like to brainstorm with me, and if you're willing to give up an hour of your time for a zoom call, email me at onehotstove AT gmail DOT com, and we'll try to schedule something. This is intended to be a win-win situation where you as the "test client" will get an hour of personalized advice and motivation and a boat-load of interesting information (with access to slides after) and in return, I would appreciate your honest feedback on whether this kind of thing is useful and how well you like the content. I found all the testers I need for now- thank you!
In the meantime, if you have fitness-related questions or if you want tips/resources on any specific topic, feel free to ask in the comments and I'll do my best to answer you. There are NO secrets in fitness, and yet it can feel very daunting and overwhelming.
What was the highlight of your week?
What were the things you did not like/agree with in Untangled?
ReplyDeleteOne was her categorical assertion that teens choosing to go vegetarian/vegan should be treated as a big red flag for eating disorders.
DeleteNot having read the book, and based upon what you have written, Nupur... I think I may be able to guess the import of this assertion. Also, I think this phenomenon can play out in adults as well.
DeleteWhen people choose to start on a particular diet based upon an idea or concept, they often end up using their will to enforce the desired change. Even as their bodies and minds crave the foods they enjoyed earlier, they forcefully try and tamp down those impulses, and this, I feel, sets up an inner resistance/conflict which may manifest in an eating disorder and health issues.
Now, many people naturally wean away from eating meat for a variety of reasons. Perhaps they don't enjoy it as much, or they just lose the appetite for it, or they don't like how they feel after eating, or the desire to eat meat simply goes away. In those cases, I doubt the author's assertion would hold true.
Disclaimer: This is my personal, unverified theory. :)
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Food restriction (calorie/carb restriction or whatever) is one thing and I can see how this is implicated in eating disorders. Specifically not wanting to eat meat often stems from discovering the horrors of factory farming (which often happens in teen years) and not wanting to consume animals. The omnivore's dilemma is a very real thing for many people. If teens want to be vegetarians or vegans, how about feeding them vegetarian or vegan food? Culturally it is seen as a big anomaly in the US, that's the thing.
DeleteYes, I agree that it's a lot more harmonious if you gradually start eating more vegetarian/vegan food as part of your regular diet.
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Hello Nupur Thanks for recommending a book for Teen’s parents .There are lot of general parenting books but not many for Teen stage. Going to Order right now and will comeback with my feed back.
ReplyDeleteI hope you find it useful. It was an insightful read for me, even if I wish some of the insights were not true, for instance, that when parents enthusiastically support something, it makes teen girls not want to do it. ha ha parenting is not for the faint of heart.
DeleteI will be signing up to be a tester :) I am quite active myself so I won’t be your typical target audience but since you are brainstorming - I hope I can help . Heera
ReplyDeleteThanks! :)
DeleteThank you for recommending Untangled. Shed some light on my own young self. By the way do recommend some of the articles and books you read for your certification.
ReplyDeleteThe certification was based on a big fat textbook! I think I posted a photo in my last post. As for articles and other books, I've been consuming fitness-related content for years. If you have a specific topic you're interested in, ask me and I'll see if I have read anything that I can recommend to you :)
DeleteRight now I'm reading this book and it is very good: The New Rules of Lifting Supercharged: Ten All-New Muscle-Building Programs for Men and Women by Lou Schuler and Alwyn Cosgrove.
Your lovely summer food look like a different world from us - we are having a cold snap with a week or two of only about 13 C and quite chilly nights. It was most exciting when we were able to get winter specials half price at the pancake parlour which are only available when the temperature is 10 C or under. And we are going to a winter solstice celebration on the weekend. It feels very wintery.
ReplyDeleteThe book on teenage girls sounds interesting. I have learnt a lot through some reading and experts and some from talking among parents. Sometimes it keeps me sane to compare notes with other parents. We have come a long way in understanding children and teenagers and I wish some of this understanding had been about to help me make my way through my messy teenage years.
How fun to have special half-price when the temps fall! Wintry weather is literally a world away for us- we're baking by 10 AM and it is all about pools and popsicles.
DeleteI agree that talking to fellow parents is wonderful and I can't imagine doing this without friends to lean on. So true that much of this was not appreciated a few decades ago!
Hi, Are you on YouTube? I wanted to follow for your recipes. It’s wonderful to see active blog since 2005 ☺️
ReplyDeleteNot on YouTube :)
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